Treat them the same way you would treat your own mother, there is nothing like sibling rivalry, it’s a cover-up for jealousy, never try to compete with someone who is older than you. They are still your seniors I wish I had an older sister that could cuddle me and tell me all will be okay, one that would help me sort out my bills when things are thick, one that my children can visit and I feel well, my own kids are good in my mom’s hands.
But if your sisters do motherly things to you, and you keep hurting her, and expect her to always forgive and take you back, as usual, I am sorry, time changes and people grow up once you grow up, please pick up yourself and start taking care of your sister the same way you would take care of your own mother when they are old and when they need you you can’t just be a taker always, givers also get tired . Give back a hand to those who saw you grow.
If your elderly sister saw you through education and now you are working, please, shop for her if not every month, then at least 2 times a year surprise her even if she is rich or stable, buy her small things like Dera, less, cloths ( by the way, rich people appreciate gifts, not because they can’t buy, but simply because, someone has thought about them.
If your elder sibling goes broke because of educating all of you, then it’s your time to build them, imagine if she/he became greedy and build herself with all the money she invested in the family, to just invest in her/ himself Some of you might not be where you are today ( so please think and be human )
There is only amount of pain sisters/siblings can bring for you, and they keep treating it as it’s normal,
Remember this is not someone who gave birth to you, they might turn their back forever, it’s human
If you keep allowing people to hurt you and come back in the name of family. Again I repeat, there is nothing like sibling rivalry, its jealousy
I am sorry, you keep hurting yourself. Families must create boundaries. If you cannot create them, love them from afar. Givers should be careful because takers have no boundaries nor shame.
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